You know who I was trying out the whole ‘dating’ thing? Well, a few weeks ago, I decided that really it just wasn’t working out. So I’ve thrown it in the ‘too hard’ basket for now.
Truth is, I became a bit of a ‘boyfriend magnet’. It was completely not intentional. It’s just the only men that seemed to be chasing me were the ones that are ALREADY TAKEN!
I am going to take a minute to point out the obvious to any men that might actually be reading this: Telling a girl you’re interested while you are already IN a relationship is NOT flattering. It is, however, an insightful indication of what to expect from you in the future.
So boys, if you’re in a broken relationship to which there is no fix – and you find yourself wanting someone else – do yourself a HUGE favour. End the relationship before making an idiot of yourself trying to convince the ‘someone else’ you want them.
I know quite a few men in relationships – And, I can be a big flirt, am easy to talk to, and make a great friend. But to me the line is pretty fucking clear. I won’t cross it. I am not that kind of girl.
Now, where’s my rock? I need to crawl back under it.